Right Person

When people use this word 'Right Person' what do they mean? Do we are have people who are right? If you answered yes to these questions then why do people still go through serious issues in their relationships?
Most often we tend to think that for a relationship/marriage to be perfect (of which is impossible), then the individuals must be perfect. The truth is, there is no 'RIGHT' person somewhere who will come into your life to make your relationship seem more of the norm.
Human interactions tend to always yield an environment that is not smooth or filled with excitement all the time. So there's always going to be ups and downs. A relationship is made better when conflicts sets in to reveal who we truly are, in order to find  the right means to deal with our weakness. Inasmuch as we want a 'lived happily ever after' kind of relationships, it is important we check ourselves and the people we choose to relate with. To pick someone as a friend or partner, identify their shortcomings and check yourself to see if you can tolerate or live with those shortcomings of that person.
A right person is not the one with the money, looking handsome or beautiful, talented, with the nice car or house, Christian,etc. He/she is the one who is him/herself in all ways, is ready to make up and move on when there's a conflict, loves you unconditionally, ready to put you first, appreciates you, makes you feel yourself, ready to support you and help you develop what you know how to do best, understands you, respects you, identifies his/her weakness and is ready to work at it, etc.
You are the one to tell who is right for you but being right for you does not mean he/she is perfect (without faults). We are not the same and none of us is perfect, the weakness in me is the strength in another but he/she also has his/her weakness.Therefore, moving from one person to the other in search of the 'right' one could be a never finding journey. The next time you go on such a journey find out what is with you that contributes to the unsuccessful story of your love life.
I might not be a Love Doctor or counselor, but I have come to know and understand that issues of love varies according to the personalities involved. There is no formula to make your relationship perfect or your partner be the 'right' person to you, it's a method you guys design for yourself to work for you. People can give their advice, or perception about love issues but the decision is yours.
Ladies there is no 'Mr Right' out there; Guys there's no 'Perfect Lady' for you. To love someone is 'work'. Therefore be ready for the time and energy investment you are about to make for the relationship, love the person for who he/she is not what they have or the kind of person you want him/her to be. Get to know and understand the personality of your friend, partner or spouse and you can better relate to him/her. That is the beauty of LOVE. I wish you success in your relationship. It's time we put sanity into relationships and made them as God intended them to be.